When it comes to love and relationships, Cancerians value an all-in type of mindset where you're either 100% in the relationship or you're not. They're prone to giving their all with their sensitive and caring nature once they are convinced that you're down for them. Cancerians are looking for someone that they can trust to let their walls down. Someone who is able to tend to their emotional needs and most of all loyal to them.

Emotional security is extremely important for a Cancer. They aspire to feel safe and secure in all areas of life, especially in their home. When they get depressed or upset for any reason, they seek retreat within the emotionally safe environment they have built for themselves - similar to a hermit crab.

The most difficult aspect of dating a Cancer is getting through their tough exterior. They rarely take the direct approach, so you'll need to make them feel comfortable enough to share their deep feelings. A slow, steady, and consistent pace is vital, as they will need to trust you completely before they let their guards down and make sure to be accountable and create equality in the relationship for it to thrive.